Experiences Validating the Guided Afterlife Connections

One of the reasons we know the Guided Afterlife Connections are real communications with the loved one in the afterlife is that in a number of the sessions, experiencers learned things they could not have known and could not have imagined, or things happened that they could not have anticipated. Some of these experiences follow.

 
Necole Receives Validations from Her Son's Friend and Her Son

Necole had a session with Rochelle to connect with her son, Danny, who passed away at age 11. She had a wonderful connection. During the connection, Necole asked for a sign the connection was real. Her son's friend, Danny, who passed into spirit the same day as Zachary, responded first. He asked Necole to tell his mother to get the photograph out of the wallet. When Necole returned home, she contacted Danny's mother to tell her what happened. Danny's mother said she was involved in putting together a two-year anniversary editorial about Danny. She had been searching through photos for a picture of him to use with it and finally found the perfect picture. It was in a wallet. Danny had told Necole to give the message to his mother so she would know he is fine and never far from her.

Necole's son Zachary then offered his own validation of the experience. Necole said to him, "Zachary, tell me something I don’t know." He said, "Ask Rochelle about the doctor’s appointment she had on Wednesday." When Necole asked Rochelle whether she had a doctor's appointment on Wednesday, Rochelle responded with surprise, “Yes! I did have a doctor’s appointment on Wednesday.”

 
Necole Receives a Third Validation from Her Son

At one point in her Guided Afterlife Connecion, Necole reported to Rochelle, “Zachary said to me, ‘The picture doesn’t always look like the photograph.’ I said to him, ‘What does that mean for me?’ He said, ‘Sometimes things are not always what they seem. Like the crystal bluebird.’" None of that made sense to Necole during the session.

After her session, she was met by her husband, Mike, who had accompanied her and had had his own Guided Afterlife Connection. He told Necole that while she was having her session, he walked 10 miles to ground himself after the remarkable session he had. During his walk, he took pictures that he showed to Necole. In one of them was a fence with a bird perched on it that looked like a crystal bird. Necole and Mike were trying to figure out if the bird was real or crystal when she remembered what Zachary had said during her session: "The picture doesn’t always look like the photograph" and "Sometimes things are not always what they seem. Like the crystal bluebird." Necole could not have known that Mike would have a photograph that had what appeared to be a crystal bird in it.

 
Christine Receives a Validation from Her Husband

Christine's original Guided Afterlife Connection experience is in the book, Guided Afterlife Connections. She connected with her husband, Joe, living in the next plane of life, and had the wonderful experience of hugging and kissing him. After her first session, she came to Rochelle to talk about a dream she had had about Joe. Rochelle said that they could examine the dream through a shorter Guided Afterlife Session targeting it. What happened during the short, targeted session was remarkable.

Rochelle took Christine through the audio and visual bilateral stimulation of the Guided Afterlife Connection protocol for the short session. She had on the headset the entire time, with music and sounds alternating in volume between the left and right ears. She connected with Joe and they had a conversation. Toward the end of the session, Christine asked him point blank, "How do I know this is really you?" Joe immediately replied, "I have turned off the music." At that moment, the music coming through the earphones stopped.

Christine opened her eyes and told Rochelle what had happened. Christine and Rochelle checked the CD player; it was running fine, with the indicator showing that the player was going through the music selection. But there was no sound. Rochelle put the headset up to her ear and turned up the volume all the way. There was no sound. Finally, she turned off the CD unit and started it again. It worked fine.

Throughout the Guided Afterlife Connections session, the music and sounds play through the headset. There has never been an instance in which the music suddenly stopped, for any reason. And it doesn't seem physically possible for the CD player to be running, apparently playing the music, but there is no sound, even when the volume is turned up all the way.

Joe answered Christine's question, giving her, and us, another validation of the reality of this wonderful experience.

 
Christine Has Another Validation from Joe

Christine wanted to have another Guided Afterlife Connection with Rochelle, connecting with her husband, Joe. Christine spoke to Rochelle about it, but there was no time for a session. During the conversation, she explained that after her last Guided Afterlife Connection, she had several dreams about Joe. In the latest one, at the end of her dream, Joe opened a door, peeking in telling her he loved her. Rochelle said that when they had time for another session, they would use that dream as the beginning target for the session. Rochelle also said she had some questions she wanted Christine to ask Joe.

Finally, two weeks later, Rochelle and Christine had time for the session they had been wanting to have. Christine connected with Joe, and he showed her beautiful places, including a beach with boulders on it amd butterflies. They walked down a spiral rock stairway to the bottom, where there was a bench. Joe asked Christine to sit on the bench. He looked at her and said "Now, what about the questions?" Rochelle and Christine were both very surprised that Joe would ask that. Christine had not remembered that two weeks prior, Rochelle had mentioned having some questions for Joe to answer. Rochelle and Christine had not spoken about questions before this session. Joe brought up the questions comepletly out of the blue. Joe then answered Rochelle's questions, at one point answering concerns she had by saying, "Don't underestimate the power of the power!"

 
Carole Receives a Validation from Her Friend's Son

Carole, whose daughter, Kate, had been killed in a car accident, received a validation of the experience through the actions of her friend Linda's son Martine, who also was in spirit. This is the account from the book, Guided Afterlife Connections: "After another set of eye movements, Carole closed her eyes again. 'Now I see Martine, Linda’s son. He passed away eight months ago. He’s sitting on his couch looking at me, with one leg up and his arms dangling in a funny pose, smiling. But I can still see Kate. Martine’s flashing in and out. Now there are two things going on. Kate’s outside and Martine’s inside. He has his leg up with his arms in that funny position. I can see Kate’s dress, but not the bottom. It keeps going to Martine sitting on the couch being silly. I don’t understand this.'

After the session, Carole wrote [Rochelle] an email describing a remarkable validation of her afterlife connection. She wrote that as she and Linda, Martine’s mother, were riding home, she told Linda that she had seen Martine in her Guided Afterlife Connection. Carole showed Linda the comical pose he was in, with his leg up and arms dangling. Linda’s eyes opened wide. She said when Martine was clowning around, he would make what they called his "monkey pose," with his leg up and arms dangling. It was exactly what Carole saw, without knowing that Martine did that.

The pose was a distinctive message from Martine to let his mom, Linda, know that he was fine, happy, and clowning as he always did.

 
Vanessa Receives a Validation from Joanie, Her Friend Now in Spirit

Vanessa had a Guided Afterlife Connection with Rochelle. She was going to target her friend, Joanie. The evening before the Guided Afterlife Connection, while meditating, Vanessa asked Joanie for a sign that would validate the experience she was about to have. A word came to her very clearly: "squib." The odd response didn't make any sense to her.

The next morning, Rochelle picked Vanessa up at her hotel to take her to Rochelle's office. They had no sooner begun the ride to the office than Vanessa said to Rochelle, "Does the word squib mean anything to you?" Rochelle said immediately, "Yes, it does! It means a great deal to me. My former husband was a pharmacist and had been involved with Squib Pharmaceutical Company daily for years. He got our daughter-in-law a job as a pharmaceutical representative with Squibb Pharmaceutical Company."

 
Lauren's Dream Validation

Lauren had a Guided Afterlife Connection with Rochelle, targeting her grandmother. After one set of eye movements, Lauren said, “I saw the front door to Grandma’s house, and it was open. I asked Grandma, 'Why is the front door open? It was always closed in the good old days. Why is it open?' Grandma answered that she didn’t know, and I said, 'Well, who can we ask? Why was it open? Was it the wind?’ Grandma said to me, 'You don’t need to ask anybody. It’s an open door. People come. People go. You just need to answer your own questions.’”

Rochelle guided her through another set of eye movements. Lauren reported, “I saw Grandma again. I saw her dead and alive. She was on the back porch, then out in the front. The door was open, and it was so light. Things just feel open.”

I said to Lauren, “Ask Grandma, 'Is there anything you want to tell me about all of this?’” We did a set of eye movements and she said, “Grandma told me, 'We’re all with you, Lauren.’” A look of realization formed on her face. “Of course, that’s the meaning of the doors. I had a dream last week and in it there was an open door. I sensed that it was an open door between two worlds. Now she’s saying to me, 'It doesn’t matter how it opened.’ Rochelle, it doesn’t seem possible. How do I know that about the doors that were in my dream and the open doors I just saw in Grandma’s house?”